7 Tips for Better Conversations in Random Chats
Keep the chat engaging, respectful, and fun with these simple techniques.
- Start positive and curious
- Match the other person’s tone
- Use callbacks to earlier topics
- Say names (or nicknames) to build rapport
- Share short stories
- Invite new topics with either/or questions
- End graciously if the vibe isn’t right
Small signals—like mirroring message length or adding a friendly emoji—build comfort fast. If the chat slows, introduce a lightweight game or share a quick recommendation.
Conversation scaffolding
Use this flow when stuck: Topic → Ask → Share → Invite. For example: “Podcasts lately? I’m into mystery series. Got any favs?”
Bankable prompts
- “What small upgrade made your day better recently?”
- “If you had a free afternoon, how would you spend it?”
- “What’s a niche topic you love that more people should know about?”